Friday, June 21, 2013

Moving dates

July 25 last day of work
July 29 moving trailer is dropped off
July 30 moving trailer picked up
August 1 we bawl as we drive east
August 1-5 Missoula with dear friends to ease the pain and celebrate Bob's bday
August 5-7drive to Minneapolis 
August 7-10 more time with dear friends, more healing
August 10 Chicago, more friends
August 12 Batesville with family
August 14 arrive in Pittsburgh 

My other grandma

My grandma Gerti, died a few weeks ago. She was technically my step grandma, but was very close to us growing up. We had sleep overs, went on trips with cousins (Disney and black butte mostly) and spent days at the state fair followed by swimming. But after my grandpa died in 1995, she slowly retreated. She was at both my wedding and my sister's, but she only saw Violet in pictures. She wasn't well. Cancer I guess, but we would have loved to have seen her anyway. Much like my grandfather, there wasn't a funeral. So I spent part of a day talking about her with my mom and exchanging memories with my sister. It is funny how different things stood out for each of us. I'll miss you, I've missed you the last 7 years, but now I'll miss sending and receiving cards and hoping you'll want to see us. We didn't care that you thought you were an old lady, we still loved and love you.